Tuesday, August 12, 2008
What Dreams May Come...
Monday, August 11, 2008
Happy Birthday To You!!!
Saturday, August 09, 2008
Joshua Ballin' at Arco Arena
Joshua was personally invited to participate in the the first ever Jr. NBA/Jr. WNBA Discover Card Homecourt Skills Challenge at ARCO Arena. The Hotshots organization teamed up with Jr. NBA/Jr. WNBA. There were over 100 kids participating from the ages of 7-14. It was a free event for all particiapants.
Rebekkah Brunson and Laura Harper from the Sacramento Monarchs were there running a small clinic and helping out with the challenge.
The participants were required to complete a series of challenges in the fastest time. They were given 3 chances to make the free throw shot. They were given penalties (2 seconds added onto their time) for each mistake made, i.e. traveling, double dribbling, not going around the cones correctly, etc.
At the end, the judges tallied up the points/times and announced the winners in each division. Guess who received the fastest time in the boys 7-11 division? JOSHUA did!!! Woohoo!!(there were 3 winners in each category). Joshua won a brand new basketball and also came home with a ton of gifts including a jersey, t-shirts, snacks, a water bottle, a certificate, a mini basketball, and a Monarchs bag.
It was so exciting! Joshua's goal was to win it, and he did! He kept his cool and stayed focused. It was pure enjoyment for the kids and parents as well. This was an experience that we'll never forget. We're so very proud of Joshua!!
Please view Joshua's video below...we've also added it to our "video bar" directly on the blog, and the actual link to the youtube video is:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shSJ2OYC7kg
Friday, August 08, 2008
Overnight Camping Trip
Although it was "just an overnight trip", there seems to be so much to tell.
First question...how big of a car does it take to go on an overnight camping trip with a family of four? Hmmm...
We left our hometown at 10:00am (right on schedule). We stopped at Shell Beach along the coast (around 12:30 or so), just past Bodega Bay to have lunch.
Upon arrival, Jayden and Joshua were amped up! Both running around the site, getting dirty, exploring things...all while dad got the tent set up and mom carefully watching the boys (being a mom) saying "Don't touch that","Be careful", "you're gonna get all dirty"...Once Jayden's white sweatshirt was dirty, and fingernails full of dirt - I think it hit Cyn - that it was crazy to think they'd stay clean.
Night came, and we retreated into the tent - where we stayed up for a bit then, it was lights out. Cyn and the boys claimed they were cold, but dad was hot. The family attributed my warmth to my natural "coat of fur" as they call it (I personally, don't get the joke).
We woke up to a marine layer of fog, but not too cold, started another fire with the LOG we had left and proceeded to clean up and get ready to travel home. On the way home we stopped at Portuguese Beach - had lunch, flew a kite and spent a short time on the beach. We were home by 4:00pm Monday afternoon.
-Great family fun. Because of no TV's or other "distractions", the focus is on the family.
-Kids loved it. They got to get dirty, be outdoors, not take a bath (they did brush their teeth) and basically just be kids and not have to worry about breaking anything.
-It was great to see their fascination with the small tide pools and creatures near the ocean. The wonder and smile on their faces were priceless.
-I'd do it again. It was definitely work for one night, but for what it meant to the kids - I'd do it all over again.
-Because it was the coast, there were no flying bugs (good for Cyn's sake) - I think I saw 1 fly.
-Cheetos get stale quickly because of the humidity - so, it's better to seal them up REAL good.
-I think Bear Gryllis of Man vs. Wild should carry those "quick lite" log thingys, they work great, are small, cost less than a dollar, and just a small piece can start a fire.
-It is something the kids will look back on and remember. We're here to create memories for them...remember.
A new look!
Thursday, August 07, 2008
Kristi, Scott, & Zoie's Visit...
Lance's Summer Skillz Camp
The kids raved about Lance's camp and fully enjoyed each and every day of it even though they were sweating, sore, and tired. Bryson even said that he wished Lance's camp was longer, from 9-5! The parents also were very pleased with the camp and were impressed with all of the things Lance did for their kids.
A funny thing was that there was a very big youth camp going on during the same week on the other courts. I noticed that a lot of the kids and their parents were watching Lance and his small group of 12 kids. They were paying more attention to Lance's camp than their own! Some of the parents showed a lot of interest in Lance's camp and inquired about him. They wanted to know who he was and if he had flyers for more camps. One Dad from the other camp said that he was watching Lance for 2 days and said he was GREAT and said he learned some things from Lance by just observing! What can I say other than Lance is the best youth basketball coach around!
Lance receives more positive feedback from parents, players, and onlookers for his coaching style, knowledge, and ability. His passion for basketball is felt by all those around him. In addition to his passion and knowledge of basketball, Lance is very patient, positive, enthusiastic, encouraging, organized, thorough, and respectful. In return, his players respect him and take him seriously and most importantly, they learn a great deal from him. He has only good intentions for the kids he coaches. He wants to teach them and help them get to the next level. He wants them to be focused, disciplined, and always be a student.
Joshua said that of all the camps he's attended in the past, that his Dad's is by far the BEST camp! I asked some of the other campers and they too said that Lance's was the most fun and challenging.
Hmmm....this may be the start of something new for Lance (and us). Lance just may have to create and run a successful youth basketball training academy/camp! I know a ton of parents who are already ready to sign up! If any one person can do this...Lance is definitely that ONE!!
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Seiji's Successful Business
Here's my cousin Seiji (the owner of CCH -Courier Corp. of Hawaii). The company that Uncle Bill built from the ground up. We're all so proud of Seiji. This is so awesome and another cool thing about it is that Seiji isn't even 30 years old yet!!! We all miss Uncle Bill and know how extremely proud he would have been to see his son shining in their business!I remember like it was just yesterday, baby-sitting Seiji, picking him up from the Hawaii Kai pre-school, watching him play with his teenage mutant ninja turtles, and He-Man action figures, playing hide and seek at the Koko Isle Circle house, and so many other memories. And now,here he is a very smart and successful business owner!
To read the whole article, click here:
Seiji AspengrenOwner of Courier Corp. of Hawaii, shown inside the warehouse of his company
Monday, July 28, 2008
Another Basketball Camp
Jayden always has positive experiences in his camps and does extremely well. This camp was no different. On the very first day, Jayden was given an award for hustling/listening (something that is difficult for most youngsters). The head coach and the other coaches approached me after camp and said how awesome Jayden is. They said he was not only a great little player but very disciplined, focused, and could see his passion for basketball even at his young age!
On the last day of camp, Jayden was awarded 2 trophies! One trophy was for "Best Hustle". The other trophy was for "Hot Shot Champion" (he won the shooting contest for the week). Again, he racked up a lot of prizes. He was so proud of himself and of course, we were too!
This was another great basketball camp for Jayden!
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
13 Wonderfully Happy Years...
I am truly blessed and thankful! Everyday is a blessing!
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Happy 6th Birthday!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Reading Brings Rewards!!
Cyndee and I both came to the agreement that when summer started and the boys were out of school, that we wanted them to keep their brains working. One study found that when students return to school after a long summer vacation, they've lost one to three months worth of learning (more here).
We also understand that (our) kids work best on a "rewards system", and with their love (borderline infatuation) for basketball, we decided to bring the two together. We eventually came up with the " Summer Bucks Program".
So far, it's worked out nicely. They've got their own library cards, and they each probably read close to twenty to twenty five books each (and more on the way). And of course, along the way they've accumulated some "summer bucks" and also have gotten a chance to pick from a bag of basketball cards - handpicked initially by them (but paid for by mom and dad).
Just one fun way we thought of to keep the reading interest and comprehension up during the summer months! If they have "bucks" left at the end of the month, we'll probably reward them with something on a bigger scale for their efforts to read! We are very proud of our "little readers"!!
Friday, July 11, 2008
Wisdom for FREE!!!!
Did you know you have the wisdom of the world available to you? You do, and have since 1803. And, it's FREE!!!I'm talking about the public library. The first free public library in the United States, was established in 1803.
My last memory of the public library was a small place and bunch of shelves lined with books and smelling funny and dusty.
My how things have changed...
About a month ago, we took the kids to get their very own library card and check out some books, since we were starting our own summer reading program at home (more on that later). To set the example (and because we were required to), Cyndee and I both got our own card.
After Joshua and Jayden chose some books (I think 8 or 9 between them), the librarian showed them how they could check out their own books. Of course, they were excited about that - and to have their very own card too!! It was a neat process and a great indication of how times have changed.
I was amazed at the things they have and do at the libraries these days, and made me wonder "how long has this been going on? "and "How did I miss this (as a parent)?" The library in Lincoln also offers story time for the young ones, as well as movie nights for the youg kids and teens.
I even perused the audio book section and know I will be back to checkout either a book or audio book. Joshua and Jayden have already been back and have checked out another 10 or so books.
Saturday, July 05, 2008
Welcome Baby Lexi!
Baby Lexi Hideko was born on June 21st and measured, 8lbs., 7oz., 20.5 inches long.
Congratulations to Marc, Linda, and Micah! Hopefully we'll be able to make it back "home" to see you this fall. We miss you guys and can't wait to meet Lexi!
Wednesday, July 02, 2008
Placer Youth Basketball Camp
This camp was different from the highschool camps in the previous weeks. The focus was primarily on fundamentals and discipline. This camp was also well organized. In addition to the fundamentals, they did have contests and games.
Joshua is and always has been very disciplined and focused, especially when it comes to things he enjoys doing such as basketball, art, math and in the past, Taekwondo. He thrives on working hard, learning new skills, and perfecting whatever it is he wants to be the best at. He never gives up and continues to hustle and give it his all. He has a lot of drive, determination, and a winning, positive attitude.
On the first day, Joshua won the "Mr. Hustle" Award. The coach said he was one who kept pushing himself and never slacked off. On the last day, he won the "Team Shooting Champ" award, and the "Camp Shooting Champ" award.
So, another positive experience at another basketball camp. Sorry, no pictures were taken on this day.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Zebra Camp
After the week long Rocklin camp, the following week was the Lincoln High "Zebra" basketball camp.
Joshua took this camp last year and was the MVP. This year, although they didn't award an "MVP", he definitely shined. His best friend, Bryson took this camp with him this year and they had a lot of fun.
The head coach along with some of his highschool players remembered Joshua from last year and were excited to see his skills being even better than last year. His basketball sense, footwork, shooting, ball handling, and offensive/defensive skills were obvious. They were mostly impressed with his shooting and his quickness driving to the basket.
Joshua and Bryson stood out at the camp and by day 2, the coaches had to separate them because they said it wasn't fair for the two of them to be on the same team during scrimmages. Joshua and Bryson pretty much dominated the camp!
Next up, I'll be posting details to the Placer Youth Basketball Camp (another camp that was taken the week after the Zebra camp!)
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Rocklin Thunder Basketball Camp
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Spring Season of Hotshots
Here's Jayden and his Kindergarten team, the Pistons. (they were missing 3 players on this day).Jayden is playing in the non-competitive league so they do not keep score. Even so, Jayden keeps a record of his own stats and he was consistent in this second season of playing. He had 8-10 points per game!
He has a great shot like his big bro and good ball handling skills so just like Joshie he can play the shooting guard and the pointguard.
Here are the "Celtics", Joshua's Hotshots team and Lance's 5th season coaching. The team did well with 7 wins and 1 loss!This was Joshua's best season by far. His confidence has increased and so has his aggressiveness. He's our sharp shooter for sure!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
School's Out....Summer's In...
Monday, June 09, 2008
Jayden's Kindergarten Graduation
On June 5th, we attended Jayden's kindergarten graduation It was a very cute program. I can't believe how quickly this year went by!
Here he is pictured with Mrs. Pennington, the best kindergarten teacher we could ever hope for. After over 35 years of teaching, Mrs. Pennington retired. We were so blessed to have both of our boys be a part of her class. She is definitely one of those teachers whom we will always remember and think so highly of. She put in more than her share of teaching and all of her students and their parents are extremely thankful and grateful for her kind, loving, patient, genuine, and gentle teaching methods. What a wonderful experience Jayden had in kindergarten!
Congratulations to our little graduate and his memorable and successful first year of elementary school!
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
The Dynamic Duo
"The Dynamic Duo" or "BFF", whatever you call them one thing is for sure...Joshua and Bryson have a special friendship.We always strive for our boys to be happy, loving, thankful, intelligent, respectful, responsible, talented, polite, well behaved, good decision-makers( even if we're not with them), confident and social. Along with all of the above, we would only wish good things on our children just as any parent would. With that, it includes the right friends, peers, and influences.
I'm happy to say that Joshua has made a friend for life with Bryson. They met last winter in their basketball league. Over the past year, they have become really great friends. Bryson is a super kid and comes from a great family. We welcome Bryson into our family/home with open arms just as Bryson's family welcomes Joshua with open arms.
Joshua is somewhat shy. He makes friends easily but is and always has been very particular in whom he chooses to be friends with. He's always been intimidated by rowdy, loud, "get into trouble a lot" type of kids and would always stay away from them. He's just very conscientious about people in general.
Bryson is an awesome kid! He's kind, funny, smart,mature, fun, responsible, has an infectious laugh, and is a terrific basketball player. Joshua and Bryson get along so well and they truly complement each other. They like the same things, but are very different in personality. They just "get" each other. And, it's so nice to see at this young age the genuine friendship and respect they have for one another. I know that their bond is a special one and it is one I see growing and being life long.
So, this is dedicated to the best buds: Joshua and Bryson. May your friendship be as special together as the two of you are individually!
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
#1 Coach and his #1 Boys

Sunday, May 11, 2008
Happy Mother's Day!!!!
Ask them "who runs the house?" and it's "mommy". Ask them "who's always right?" and it's "mommy". Ask them the most important person in their lives (that doesn't play basketball) and it's "mommy". The words "I Love You" are spoken EVERY DAY in our house, most importantly it is the last thing they (and we) hear before they (and we) go to bed. And that is one BIG thing you are responsible for in our family - love.
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Hard Work Pays Off & Practice Is The Key...
As a coach, I can see the potential in every child. The sad thing is, they have to practice and work hard to unleash it or that potential is wasted. Also as a coach, I want to see that potential come out...with each game I think "will this be the game?". As a parent, I want to see my kids succeed at EVERYTHING. When it comes to sports, I want them to be competitive. They don't have to BE the best, just DO their best. The one challenge Joshua has had in his (a little over a) year of playing basketball has been being aggressive - on offense and defense. As a parent, I wondered if it would ever happen. As a coach, I was waiting for it to happen.
From our previous blog entries, you know about Joshua's (and Jayden's) desire for basketball, and Joshua has practiced a lot since first starting in the winter of 2007.
Friday evening was our spring session opener. Just coming off of a "O-fer" and another not-so aggressive winter session, there was a lot to be desired.
"I am going to dominate" were Joshua's words. We had heard them before, and always encourage him to set goals and be confident. But would this be the game? Joshua has always been a good "student", so I preach defense and how the other player cannot score without the ball, and how easy layups come from steals, and how broken up passes that lead to baskets for his team are just as good as him scoring the basket. Did it sink in? Only have we seen glimpses of aggressiveness - until now.
From the tipoff, Joshua was on his man like "white on rice", "like a bad smell", like he was his shadow. He did not let his man breathe. With that he caused turnovers, which led to baskets. Aggressivenss on defense was looking good - how about offense? Two shots - normally ones he makes - two misses. Coach (that's me) calls him over on a dead ball. The advice? "Take a breath, stay agressive on defense, the shots will fall. Relax."
First half - 0 points.
- Second half begins, and again Joshua puts his man on "lockdown", so much so you could see fear in his (the opposing players) face...steal...open layup...and bucket.
- Set up off the free throw line extended, a step inside of the three-point line, jumper...swish! (Dad's getting a little excited at this point)
- Set up in the same corner, closer in from the last shot, jumper...swish. Will someone guard this guy?
- Missed shot, Joshua makes his way to grab the rebound, puts it right back up...another bucket. Smallest guy on the court, playing amongst the trees!!!
- Set up in the deep corner -again a step inside three point territory, man flying at him...jumper...knocked over, foul called...SWISH!!! AND ONE!!!!!! (At this point, dad wanted to chest bump everyone in sight, but I am the coach and had to maintain some sort of integrity).
Joshua's final line: 5-7 shots, 10 points, 2 assists, 2 steals, 3 rebounds and a whole game of agressiveness!!!!
Of course Joshua couldn't stop talking about his game (and still can't), and neither could mom and dad. Even Jayden was clapping for his big brother! What excitement!! Congratulations to Joshua on his "breakout" game - we're all proud of him!!!
Now, let's go out and do it again!!!! (That's the coach in me.)
Monday, March 31, 2008
Spring Breaking in Colorado
(Taken in Donnie's backyard...)
We stayed with Donnie,Lisa, Alex, and Marisa in Colorado Springs in their new home (they moved there one year ago).
We also spent time in Denver where Kevin,Tracy, Emma, Hannah, and Sarah live.
We celebrated Easter, Mom's birthday, went to the Colorado Springs zoo, the Denver aquarium, shopping, we played outside, jumped on the trampoline, and best of all got to spend quality time with the whole family.
Joshie and Jayden had so much fun with their cousins and the one day playing in the snow that they said they wanted to move there! Haha, yeah right...us, move to the cold? I don't think so. We'd much rather visit!
Thank you to Donnie, Lisa, Alex, Marisa, Kev, Tracy, Emma, Hannah, Sara, Bobby, and Jane for their hospitality, generosity, yummy foods, and great memories! Hope to see you all again sooner than later!
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Terrific Trimester Grades
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Welcome Aiden and Ian
I'm sure the big sisters will be great help to Mommy and Daddy! Congrats again!!!
We'll just have to make it back to Hawaii this year, to see Preston, the twins, and Marc and Linda's baby (due in June)!
Welcome Baby "PJ"
Can't wait to meet the little guy. Hopefully we make it back home (Hawaii) some time this year to see you all.
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Joshua's First Official Training Session
Needless to say, Lance and I were very impressed with Curtis' training session. Joshua fully enjoyed it. Even though he was huffing and puffing, sweating, and a little sore, he had a blast! He said he loved it and can't wait to go again!
Joshua is so lucky and we are so thankful and grateful to Curtis for offering his services to Joshua. What a blessing!We're so excited for Joshua and the experience, knowledge, and strength he will gain from his new mentor, Curtis. Again, what a huge honor and privilege it is to have this great opportunity for Joshua to have quality one on one training with a pro like Curtis!
We'll keep you posted.
I just realized something, in a recent entry, I asked if you thought we'd be able to add anymore basketball into our lives...we just did! In addition to two weekly practices for the boys, two weekly games on Saturdays, Lance's weekly games on Sundays, now we'll have training for Joshua 2-3 times a week with Curtis! Wow! That's a lot of basketball!
Friday, January 25, 2008
Joshua's Mentor
After a while, the father, Curtis approached me, introduced himself and asked if Joshua was taking any basketball trainings, how long he's been playing, how old he was and so on. Curtis told me that Joshua is a great shooter and has LOTS of potential. Apparently, Curtis used to offer some training sessions at the Hardwood Palace but got out of it for various reasons. He didn't like the fact that they charged so much for the extra trainings. He felt that if you have the knowledge,experience and the desire to want to teach kids, why charge? He mentioned the fact that when he was growing up, all of the camps and trainings he attended were all free of charge and felt that this is how it should be.
Curtis played Pac-10 College ball for Oregon. Obviously he has the skill, knowledge, heart, and experience.
He went on to say that he trains with his 5th grade son and opens it up for kids who he sees has that "potential". His son is a great player, we've seen him play in the past and it's obvious that he has the skill. Curtis works with a small group of hand-picked kids.
Hundreds of kids are at the Hardwood Palace each week and Curtis said there are only just a couple here and there that he sees who stand out in the crowd and last week, it happened to be Joshua! What a great honor!
Curtis has a full-time job and commutes to and from Stockton and yet he chooses to train 3 to 4 times per week. That evening, Lance and I both talked to Curtis, exchanged numbers and planned to meet up with him on the weekend to have Joshua try it out.
I'll post a new entry after the training session. I have a feeling that it'll be a great experience. We are all looking forward to it.
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Back In The Game...
He's playing at the Hardwood Palace (the place that Joshie and Jayden play at) in the Men's D Division. Supposedly, it's for the guy who wants to just have fun, run around, get some exercise, and get back into it.
His team has played in 4 games and so far they are 2 and 2. He's having a great time and that's the main thing. The team is doing well especially since most of them haven't played competitively in years! We were trying to figure out when Lance played last and we believe it was back in 2000!
Do you think we can add anymore basketball into our lives? Between Joshie and Jayden's practices, games, and now Lance's games, we practically live basketball! I have to admit, it is a lot of fun!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Jayden's Youtube Debut Video
Friday, January 18, 2008
Presenting..."Air" Jayden
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Jayden's First Basketball Game
Out of the 5 shots he took, he made 4 of them. Can you believe it? He scored 8 points in his first game! Although his division is non-competitive and scores are not kept, Jayden was keeping his own stats.
He can't wait for his next game...neither can we!
Saturday, January 12, 2008
More On Coach Lance
Each session of basketball, Lance continues to get praise from parents who enjoy his coaching attitude, knowledge, and enthusiasm. Many parents request Lance to be their child's coach and this session was a big one. He had about 14 players requesting him but he could only take 10 players total.
He's lucky and always ends up with great boys/girls with wonderful supportive parents. This session is no different.
What Lance is excited about is the fact that Joshua's team was placed in the highest competitive division in their grade level. Most likely, the competitors will be mostly AAU teams and/or fourth graders. Our team is on the small size, but Lance feels confident in the boys and I am confident in his coaching ability.
Let's Go Warriors (Joshie's team) and Pistons (Jayden's team)
Thursday, January 10, 2008
Introducing Corinne Milla!!
What a cutie! Can't wait to see her in person!
