Jayden's Kindergarten Graduation

On June 5th, we attended Jayden's kindergarten graduation It was a very cute program. I can't believe how quickly this year went by!

Here he is pictured with Mrs. Pennington, the best kindergarten teacher we could ever hope for. After over 35 years of teaching, Mrs. Pennington retired. We were so blessed to have both of our boys be a part of her class. She is definitely one of those teachers whom we will always remember and think so highly of. She put in more than her share of teaching and all of her students and their parents are extremely thankful and grateful for her kind, loving, patient, genuine, and gentle teaching methods. What a wonderful experience Jayden had in kindergarten!

Congratulations to our little graduate and his memorable and successful first year of elementary school!

The Dynamic Duo

"The Dynamic Duo" or "BFF", whatever you call them one thing is for sure...Joshua and Bryson have a special friendship.

We always strive for our boys to be happy, loving, thankful, intelligent, respectful, responsible, talented, polite, well behaved, good decision-makers( even if we're not with them), confident and social. Along with all of the above, we would only wish good things on our children just as any parent would. With that, it includes the right friends, peers, and influences.

I'm happy to say that Joshua has made a friend for life with Bryson. They met last winter in their basketball league. Over the past year, they have become really great friends. Bryson is a super kid and comes from a great family. We welcome Bryson into our family/home with open arms just as Bryson's family welcomes Joshua with open arms.

Joshua is somewhat shy. He makes friends easily but is and always has been very particular in whom he chooses to be friends with. He's always been intimidated by rowdy, loud, "get into trouble a lot" type of kids and would always stay away from them. He's just very conscientious about people in general.

Bryson is an awesome kid! He's kind, funny, smart,mature, fun, responsible, has an infectious laugh, and is a terrific basketball player. Joshua and Bryson get along so well and they truly complement each other. They like the same things, but are very different in personality. They just "get" each other. And, it's so nice to see at this young age the genuine friendship and respect they have for one another. I know that their bond is a special one and it is one I see growing and being life long.

So, this is dedicated to the best buds: Joshua and Bryson. May your friendship be as special together as the two of you are individually!

#1 Coach and his #1 Boys

Here's Coach Lance with his best boys. Joshua and Jayden are so lucky that their Daddy is not only a great dad, but also a super duper, outstanding, one-of-a-kind, best coach ever!

This is Lance's 5th season coaching Joshua and his 2nd season coaching Jayden. Lance is in it for the long haul since both boys are planning on playing basketball from here on out!

Each season Lance's players and player's parents rave about his coaching skills: patience, positive attitude, knowledge of the game, and so on.

Each season he has more and more kids (and their parents) requesting to get back on his team. You can say that Lance is definitely in high demand and that demand increases with each new season he coaches.

Way to go Coach!! You are the best!

Happy Mother's Day!!!!

To all the moms and grandmoms out there...thank you. To my mom, thank you. For bringing me into this world. For keeping food in my belly, a roof over my head and clothes on my back. Noone can underestimate the power of the feeling of clean underwear! For doing the laundry, for cleaning the house, for paying my insurance (when I was at home), for putting me through college. For being at my basketball games (even when I sat the bench), and baseball games, and standing in the rain at my soccer games. I realize (now with kids of my own) that it was hard work (and with three kids - 3 times the work), so I do appreciate everything about you and what you have done (and still do) for me and us. Thank you & I love you.

To my wife,

There's not enough words to express my appreciation and love for you and what you do for our family. For being small in stature, you have BIG shoulders to carry this family on your back like you have. You do so much for us that you often times forget to take care of yourself. Our two boys are your number one priority and anyone who knows them can tell what an unbelieveable job you have done in raising them. I say you, because you are home with them while I am away. You help them with their homework (probably best, for their sake), cook for them, get them ready for school, take them to school, pick them up from school, volunteer in the classroom, keep the house clean, keep our clothes clean (underwear too!) and too many other things to list. And you do it with a smile and more often than not, an encouraging word. I love you.

I have never been happier or more excited about our future! Often times, I feel I am living a dream life, because our life is what I had always pictured...a happy, loving family with goals for the future. Seems simple...but I can honestly say, I am surrounded by a truly "happy to the core" family. Our two boys are courteous, well-mannered, well behaved kids that are always expressing their happiness - whether it be through happy drawings and words written, or through their singing and jumping around the house (while shooting a basketball, of course), or just their constant laughing, giggling and smiling! What more could I ask for?? And I attribute it to you. You encourage them to go for their dreams, never tell them they can't do this or that, you stretch their imagination and their minds, but the biggest thing of all you do for them? You love them. Unconditionally. Period.

Ask them "who runs the house?" and it's "mommy". Ask them "who's always right?" and it's "mommy". Ask them the most important person in their lives (that doesn't play basketball) and it's "mommy". The words "I Love You" are spoken EVERY DAY in our house, most importantly it is the last thing they (and we) hear before they (and we) go to bed. And that is one BIG thing you are responsible for in our family - love.

While I am sure there are MANY, MANY things I have not thanked you for - just know that I appreciate you each day and EVERYTHING you do. I am eternally thankful to have you in our lives, and please know I am working each day to become a better person, partner and father - though I need a lot of work to get to your level. Thank you for our 12 years of wonderful marriage - and I am lookig foward to an incredible future!!! Thank you for fulfilling my life emotionally and spiritually. I love you to the moon and back...

- Lance

Hard Work Pays Off & Practice Is The Key...

It was hours before tipoff, and on TV...there was Lebron James hitting 10-for-10 against the Bulls in the first period. As every shot dropped, Joshua would yell "Oh my gosh!!!!!". It was a sign of things to come.

As a coach, I can see the potential in every child. The sad thing is, they have to practice and work hard to unleash it or that potential is wasted. Also as a coach, I want to see that potential come out...with each game I think "will this be the game?". As a parent, I want to see my kids succeed at EVERYTHING. When it comes to sports, I want them to be competitive. They don't have to BE the best, just DO their best. The one challenge Joshua has had in his (a little over a) year of playing basketball has been being aggressive - on offense and defense. As a parent, I wondered if it would ever happen. As a coach, I was waiting for it to happen.

From our previous blog entries, you know about Joshua's (and Jayden's) desire for basketball, and Joshua has practiced a lot since first starting in the winter of 2007.

Friday evening was our spring session opener. Just coming off of a "O-fer" and another not-so aggressive winter session, there was a lot to be desired.

"I am going to dominate" were Joshua's words. We had heard them before, and always encourage him to set goals and be confident. But would this be the game? Joshua has always been a good "student", so I preach defense and how the other player cannot score without the ball, and how easy layups come from steals, and how broken up passes that lead to baskets for his team are just as good as him scoring the basket. Did it sink in? Only have we seen glimpses of aggressiveness - until now.

From the tipoff, Joshua was on his man like "white on rice", "like a bad smell", like he was his shadow. He did not let his man breathe. With that he caused turnovers, which led to baskets. Aggressivenss on defense was looking good - how about offense? Two shots - normally ones he makes - two misses. Coach (that's me) calls him over on a dead ball. The advice? "Take a breath, stay agressive on defense, the shots will fall. Relax."

First half - 0 points.

• Second half begins, and again Joshua puts his man on "lockdown", so much so you could see fear in his (the opposing players) face...steal...open layup...and bucket.
• Set up off the free throw line extended, a step inside of the three-point line, jumper...swish! (Dad's getting a little excited at this point)
• Set up in the same corner, closer in from the last shot, jumper...swish. Will someone guard this guy?
• Missed shot, Joshua makes his way to grab the rebound, puts it right back up...another bucket. Smallest guy on the court, playing amongst the trees!!!
• Set up in the deep corner -again a step inside three point territory, man flying at him...jumper...knocked over, foul called...SWISH!!! AND ONE!!!!!! (At this point, dad wanted to chest bump everyone in sight, but I am the coach and had to maintain some sort of integrity).

Joshua swishes the free throw, but refs don't count it on account of him hitting 5 shots in a row, us being up by 20 and the game totally in our control (which means I don't know why they didn't count it, because they should have, but didn't).

Joshua's final line: 5-7 shots, 10 points, 2 assists, 2 steals, 3 rebounds and a whole game of agressiveness!!!!

Of course Joshua couldn't stop talking about his game (and still can't), and neither could mom and dad. Even Jayden was clapping for his big brother! What excitement!! Congratulations to Joshua on his "breakout" game - we're all proud of him!!!

Now, let's go out and do it again!!!! (That's the coach in me.)

Spring Breaking in Colorado

(Taken in Donnie's backyard...)

(Jumping for hours on the trampoline!)

(Grandma (Ami) and Papa and their 7 grandchildren...Alex, Joshie, Marisa, Jayden, Emma, Hannah, and Sarah.)

This year for spring break we headed out to Colorado. Although I was a bit apprehensive about the cold weather, we ended up having a great trip.


We stayed with Donnie,Lisa, Alex, and Marisa in Colorado Springs in their new home (they moved there one year ago).


We also spent time in Denver where Kevin,Tracy, Emma, Hannah, and Sarah live.


We celebrated Easter, Mom's birthday, went to the Colorado Springs zoo, the Denver aquarium, shopping, we played outside, jumped on the trampoline, and best of all got to spend quality time with the whole family.


Joshie and Jayden had so much fun with their cousins and the one day playing in the snow that they said they wanted to move there! Haha, yeah right...us, move to the cold? I don't think so. We'd much rather visit!


Thank you to Donnie, Lisa, Alex, Marisa, Kev, Tracy, Emma, Hannah, Sara, Bobby, and Jane for their hospitality, generosity, yummy foods, and great memories! Hope to see you all again sooner than later!

Terrific Trimester Grades

Joshua and Jayden both had excellent grades again for the second trimester. Way to go!!!

Welcome Aiden and Ian

On February 24th, Kelley gave birth to her twin boys, Aiden and Ian! Congratulations to Kel, Dalen, Breana, and Alyssa. I still can't believe that Kelley had twins! Wow! Pretty amazing.

I'm sure the big sisters will be great help to Mommy and Daddy! Congrats again!!!

We'll just have to make it back to Hawaii this year, to see Preston, the twins, and Marc and Linda's baby (due in June)!

Welcome Baby "PJ"

Congratulations to Mio, Pat, big brother Ethan, and big sisterMia and the new addition to their family. On January 31st, Preston James was born!

Can't wait to meet the little guy. Hopefully we make it back home (Hawaii) some time this year to see you all.

Joshua's First Official Training Session

On Sunday, we met Curtis and his son at a gym in Rocklin where Joshua had his first session. It lasted about an hour and a half. Curtis worked Joshua out really hard! It was constant running, dribbling, shooting, footwork drills, ball handling drills, and so on. He focused all on fundamentals...all the things Lance loves and would love to integrate into his own practices.

Needless to say, Lance and I were very impressed with Curtis' training session. Joshua fully enjoyed it. Even though he was huffing and puffing, sweating, and a little sore, he had a blast! He said he loved it and can't wait to go again!

Joshua is so lucky and we are so thankful and grateful to Curtis for offering his services to Joshua. What a blessing!We're so excited for Joshua and the experience, knowledge, and strength he will gain from his new mentor, Curtis. Again, what a huge honor and privilege it is to have this great opportunity for Joshua to have quality one on one training with a pro like Curtis!

We'll keep you posted.

I just realized something, in a recent entry, I asked if you thought we'd be able to add anymore basketball into our lives...we just did! In addition to two weekly practices for the boys, two weekly games on Saturdays, Lance's weekly games on Sundays, now we'll have training for Joshua 2-3 times a week with Curtis! Wow! That's a lot of basketball!

Joshua's Mentor

Last Thursday at basketball practice, while Jayden was on the court with his team, Joshua went to another court to shoot around. When I looked up, I noticed that he was shooting with a father and son. As usual, Joshua was swishing all of his shots in a friendly game of HORSE and a free throw contest.

After a while, the father, Curtis approached me, introduced himself and asked if Joshua was taking any basketball trainings, how long he's been playing, how old he was and so on. Curtis told me that Joshua is a great shooter and has LOTS of potential. Apparently, Curtis used to offer some training sessions at the Hardwood Palace but got out of it for various reasons. He didn't like the fact that they charged so much for the extra trainings. He felt that if you have the knowledge,experience and the desire to want to teach kids, why charge? He mentioned the fact that when he was growing up, all of the camps and trainings he attended were all free of charge and felt that this is how it should be.

Curtis played Pac-10 College ball for Oregon. Obviously he has the skill, knowledge, heart, and experience.

He went on to say that he trains with his 5th grade son and opens it up for kids who he sees has that "potential". His son is a great player, we've seen him play in the past and it's obvious that he has the skill. Curtis works with a small group of hand-picked kids.

Hundreds of kids are at the Hardwood Palace each week and Curtis said there are only just a couple here and there that he sees who stand out in the crowd and last week, it happened to be Joshua! What a great honor!

Curtis has a full-time job and commutes to and from Stockton and yet he chooses to train 3 to 4 times per week. That evening, Lance and I both talked to Curtis, exchanged numbers and planned to meet up with him on the weekend to have Joshua try it out.

I'll post a new entry after the training session. I have a feeling that it'll be a great experience. We are all looking forward to it.

Back In The Game...

Lance is officially "back in the game. What game you may ask? Basketball of course! He might as well, he coaches, both boys are playing, why not add himself in the mix?

He's playing at the Hardwood Palace (the place that Joshie and Jayden play at) in the Men's D Division. Supposedly, it's for the guy who wants to just have fun, run around, get some exercise, and get back into it.

His team has played in 4 games and so far they are 2 and 2. He's having a great time and that's the main thing. The team is doing well especially since most of them haven't played competitively in years! We were trying to figure out when Lance played last and we believe it was back in 2000!

Do you think we can add anymore basketball into our lives? Between Joshie and Jayden's practices, games, and now Lance's games, we practically live basketball! I have to admit, it is a lot of fun!

Jayden's Youtube Debut Video

Here's the official link to view Jayden's youtube video. Here you can view it in full screen. Enjoy!

Presenting..."Air" Jayden

Check out this video featuring Jayden in his Hotshots basketball debut. The very first game of his career...8 points for our little shooting guard! Press play, turn your speakers on, and enjoy!

Jayden's First Basketball Game

Last Saturday, Jayden played in his very first basketball game for the Hotshots league. He was so excited to play. The moment that he stepped onto the court, he just couldn't hold back his smile. He was so happy to be there.

Out of the 5 shots he took, he made 4 of them. Can you believe it? He scored 8 points in his first game! Although his division is non-competitive and scores are not kept, Jayden was keeping his own stats.

Just imagine, teams consisting of preschoolers and kindergarteners. Uniforms that are oversized for most, players who can barely dribble or reach the 8 ft. high baskets, and players who carry the ball across the court! It was hilarious!

Jayden did really well with his ball handling, passing, and of course shooting! He was incredible!

He can't wait for his next game...neither can we!

More On Coach Lance

The winter league of Hotshots is now in session. Lance will be coaching his fourth season of basketball. In addition to coaching Joshua's 3rd/4th grade PAC division (the highest division in his league), he will also be coaching Jayden's team, Pre-K/Kindergarten.

Each session of basketball, Lance continues to get praise from parents who enjoy his coaching attitude, knowledge, and enthusiasm. Many parents request Lance to be their child's coach and this session was a big one. He had about 14 players requesting him but he could only take 10 players total.

He's lucky and always ends up with great boys/girls with wonderful supportive parents. This session is no different.

What Lance is excited about is the fact that Joshua's team was placed in the highest competitive division in their grade level. Most likely, the competitors will be mostly AAU teams and/or fourth graders. Our team is on the small size, but Lance feels confident in the boys and I am confident in his coaching ability.

Let's Go Warriors (Joshie's team) and Pistons (Jayden's team)

Introducing Corinne Milla!!

Here she is, baby Corinne Milla courtesy of proud new Mommy and Daddy (Jovi and Brad).

What a cutie! Can't wait to see her in person!

Coach Lance's 1st Ever "Skillz Camp"...

Two days after Christmas, Lance put on a 2-day, 3-hour long basketball camp for 16 kids. Most of the campers were boys who are on Lance's current team or who have played for him in the past. With the exception of my niece and nephew and two other boys, all campers have played competitively before.

The camp was filled with fun, important fundamentals, drills, contests and games. Lance had everything under control and was very well organized. He had an assistant coach (Greden's Dad, Brian) who filled in and helped out. At the end of the camp, we supplied a pizza party and gave out awards and recognition.

All of the kids seemed to have enjoyed themselves and I got a lot of positive feedback from parents.

It was a positive experience for all involved, including the kids, coach, and parents who observed.

Out of all of the many basketball camps that Joshie and Jayden have taken in the past, I'd have to honestly say that Coach Lance's Skillz Camp was by far the best camp they ever took. I know I know what you're thinking, "it was better than Bibby's camp?"...Well...minus Bibby it was definitely the best one...okay, okay...even with Bibby it was still the best one!

What can I say, Lance is just the most fun, most positive, enthusiastic, well-liked, and respected youth coach out there. He teaches the kids important values and skills while making sure that he remains positive and energetic. His knowledge and love for the game comes out during his coaching sessions and the kids seem to really soak it up.

I guarantee that this won't be the end of Coach Lance's Skillz camps for sure...more of his camps are yet to come! All campers be ready to sign up and fast!

A Healthy Christmas Break

This year was the first Christmas celebration in a while where all the kids were healthy. If you recall, last year, our household was hit hard with some type of a stomach virus, including being rushed to emergency for dehydration etc.

Before Donnie, Lisa, Alex, and Marisa arrived from Colorado Springs, they came down with something. But, by the time they arrived here, they were all better!

It was a nice Christmas, however we did miss Lance's sister and family and my other brother, Kevin and his family.

Santa made his stop at our house again and as always, the boys were bombarded with gifts galore. The majority of their gifts this year were pretty much all basketball related: jerseys, autographed cards, trading cards, books, posters, prints, games, video games and so on.

We hope that you all enjoyed your Christmas celebration with your family and loved ones as much as we did!

Happy New Year...Hauoli Maka Hiki Hou!!!

Happy 2008 to you all! Here's to a brand new year filled with love, health, prosperity, success, fond memories, and fun!

Welcome Baby Honda!

On December 30th, Brad and Jovi welcomed their brand new baby girl into the world. Baby Corinne weighed 7 lbs., 3 oz. and was 21 inches long.

Congratulations to Brad and Jovi! We can't wait to meet Corinne!

Big Spoon(ers)

On Saturday, we went to visit our great friends, Steve, Stacy, Kayla and Andrew. We finally had a chance to get together and hang out.

After dinner we headed out to the Big Spoon. What a fun experience! What a great concept! You go in and build your own frozen yogurt sundae. First, you choose your yogurt, then you go to the fudge station, and then to the nuts and candies stations. They have everything from gummy worms to giant sprinkles, chocolate rocks to bubble gum! I think Jayden had vanilla with giant sprinkles, and bubble gum. Joshie had chocolate/vanilla swirl with hot fudge, chocolate rocks, chocolate sprinkles, heath bar bits and whipped cream.

It was fun, yummy, and very affordable. They charge you by the weight of your yogurt concoction. So, for the 8 of us, we paid about $15 total!

Stacy told us that they built one in Rocklin, we've already googled it and know exactly where it is! I guarantee you that we'll be hitting that place soon and often!

Thanks S,S, K and A for the super fun night! Hopefully, we'll be able to hang out again SOON!

Averie

On Friday, I went to visit my really good friend, Kristi, her husband Scott, and her Mom, and met Averie for the first time. Kristi, Scott, and Averie were visiting from New Jersey.

Averie is such a cutie and although she was under the weather, she was still such a sweet and very good baby!

I can't wait to see you guys again!

Gingerbread House

Yesterday, Jayden went over to his friend Jacob's house to make gingerbread houses. It was Jayden, Jacob, Dillon, and Canyon. What a great day it was. The four boys were focused, determined and very patient I may add even when the walls kept falling over.

Not once during the building of their masterpieces did they sneak a taste of anything! All of the Moms were shocked! Just imagine, there were cookies, sprinkles, m&ms, gum drops, marshmallows, sugar, sugar, and more sugar!

After completion of the houses, the boys went off to play and it was unanimous, no one wanted to eat their creation!

Thank you Kerri for inviting us over for such a fun day!

New Pets

Last weekend Jayden wanted to go look at the pets at the pet store. With Jayden's cat allergy and Joshie's dog allergy we thought we'd be a pet-free family. Not anymore!

The boys both had an interest in getting a fish. So, we ended up with two beta-fish that day.

Jayden named his fish, "MJ" and Joshie's fish is named, "Nash"...duh!!!

So far so good, they are "taking care" of their new pets and giving them extra tlc by talking to them each and everyday.

Jayden is a little more fascinated with his fish than Joshie. He genuinely worries about MJ when we aren't home and wonders if he'll be okay by himself, etc.

So we went from a "pet-free" home to a "2 pet household"...no complaints here!

EXCELlent Report Cards

Joshua and Jayden received excellent report cards and as always, we are extremely proud of them both!

At the parent-teacher conferences, both Joshie's teacher and Jayden's teacher had nothing but positive things to say. Apparently, they are both the high achievers in their class, are leaders, respectful, independent, and well-liked by their peers. How wonderful!

Congratulations to our boys!

To celebrate, we took the boys are to see the Harlem Globetrotters. It was a fun night!

First Trimester Awards

Before Thanksgiving break, Joshie and Jayden received their First Trimester awards. Only two students per class are given the Academic Award and we are proud to say that both Joshie and Jayden received this award. Joshie also received an award for Perfect Attendance.

We are very proud of both of our boys and know that they will continue to excel in everything they do!

Awesome Teachers

This year, Joshua and Jayden have the most wonderful teachers. Jayden has Mrs. Pennington who has been teaching for 35 years (Joshie had her in Kindergarten). She is the reason why Lance stood in line at 4:30 a.m. in the freezing cold to make sure Jayden was placed in her class. She is the warmest, most loving, patient and positive teacher you could ever imagine. She's like a baby whisperer or in this case, a "kindergartener whisperer". Children and parents adore her and we feel truly blessed that Jayden is in her class...what a wonderful start to his education!

Jayden is constantly surprising Mrs. Pennington with his knowledge of basketball. She is always praising him for his writings and reading skills. For example, at "free choice" when most kids enjoy playing dress-up, trains, and play-doh, Jayden chooses to write the full names (correctly spelled), team they play for, and jersey numbers for all of his favorite players. He has a list of approximately 10 favorite players who he places in order.

Joshua has Mrs. Taxara who is by far the most creative and challenging teacher he's ever had. Joshua has always excelled in school and zipped through the curriculum. Mrs. Taxara is always on top of things and comes up with such creative and exciting projects to keep her students enthusiastic. Mrs. Taxara has a group of "high achievers" in her class and Joshua is one of them. For these students she gives them extra work and projects. For example, for their book reports, she chose to teach these students how to do a power point presentation. They met once a week afterschool and worked on their presentations. Joshua absolutely loved it! He got to use cool graphics, sound effects, and music. Soon, he will be starting another afterschool project called, the Odyssey of the Mind. Odyssey of the Mind is an international educational program that provides creative problem-solving opportunities for students from kindergarten through college. Kids apply their creativity to solve problems that range from building mechanical devices to presenting their own interpretation of literary classics. They then bring their solutions to competition on the local, state, and World level. Thousands of teams from throughout the U.S. and from about 25 other countries participate in the program.

Joshua is naturally competitive and loves that he is always at the top of his class and "ahead" of most. He scored 100% on his state testing in math and is the only one who scored this high out of all the third graders! From the start of the year, he was placed in fourth grade math and he is continuing to excel in this as well.

Another exciting thing that Mrs. Taxara did was nominate Joshua for the National Young Scholars Program. The National Young Scholars Program is designed and created specifically for the nation's most highly acclaimed 2nd, 3rd, 4th and 5th grade students, each of whom have been personally selected for nomination by a teacher. NYSP is a renaissance of interactive, hands-on learning for young leaders eager for knowledge and ready to celebrate the joy of discovery. No other program of this depth and magnitude exists exclusively for the high-achieving 2nd, 3rd, 4th and 5th grade student.

The four of us are fully enjoying this terrific school year and are looking forward to the rest of the year. We are so thankful and feel truly blessed to have these wonderful teachers guiding our children!

What Was That Holiday Again?

In between the ghosts and goblins, the black and orange and the snowmen and reindeer and the red and green, there's another holiday tucked inbetween.

If it weren't for the "biggest shopping day of the year", most would probably have bypassed Thanksgiving. Once the Halloween decorations go to 50% off in the stores, the Christmas ones are set up right beside them. The commercials with Santa start popping up on Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network...but what's this holiday called Thanksgiving?

Something about pilgrims, turkey's, feasts...and oh yeah, the start of the holiday shopping. In school I remember Thanksgiving being a big deal, we celebrated, we studied. Well, they still study and celebrate now, but we are overwhelmed by the retail industry and their desire to "capture the dollar" for the end of the year profit report.

Interesting to read about the history of Thanksgiving. You can re-introduce yourself to it as well here: History of Turkey Day.

If anything it is a day to be thankful...for the things we should be thankful for each and everyday, but I guess some people are so busy, that a day had to be established for people to take a moment and focus on those things.

Each day, I am thankful for my beautiful, healthy and happy wife and two boys and for my health. I am also thankful for all events in my life that have led to me where I am today, as I feel I have become a better person because of them. The list is long, and I won't bore you with them all here. Please take the time today to stop planning your "Black Friday" plan of attack and be thankful for those people and events in your lives and carry that over to each and every day of your lives.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!!!!

Jayden's First Kindergarten Field Trip

On October 8th, Jayden and his class went on their first field trip of the year. They went to the Bishop's Pumpkin Farm in Wheatland. (Jayden's Pre-K class also went there last October). I was one of the many parent chaperones who attended the field trip.

The pumpkin farm is always a hit with the kids (and grown ups too). From the hayrides, to the train rides, to the pig races and picking their very own pumpkins how could you not have a great time?

It was a happy, safe, and successful fieldtrip!

Farewell and Aloha to Bupa....We Will Miss you

On Saturday, Bupa (my Grandpa) passed away. Although he had his ups and downs over the last year, things seemed to have been going up for him. He was stronger, his appetite was better, he was going through physical therapy, he gained 7 pounds and was even put on a diet because he was gaining weight. Bupa's mind was still very good, he was pretty alert and aware of his surroundings.

His passing was a quick one and without too much pain, aside from the back pain he was experiencing. In a matter of minutes, his blood pressure went from a very high, 180/80 to a very low 90/60. His breathing became very spaced out to just one breath every 3 seconds, and then he just slipped away...

It was a total shock to us. I truly felt like he was going to be one of those people that would live to 105! His will to live was amazing. Even with a bad heart, it was really a miracle that he was here for so long! The doctors would say that all of the time.

A couple of weeks ago, we planned to visit him at the nursing home. However, that day we were almost going to put it off until the "next time". Jayden was actually the one who was insistent on going to see Bupa. He was in tears and wanted desperately to go. My Dad had offered to take Jayden but he yelled,"NO! I want Mommy, Daddy, Joshie, and Ami(my Mom) to go!" He wouldn't let up. So, we all agreed and headed out to visit Bupa. It was a beautiful day that day, sunny but not too hot. We all sat outside as we always do. There is a little basketball hoop outside of the nursing home and Joshie and Jayden would always bring a ball so they can shoot around in front of Bupa. Bupa always got a kick out of seeing the boys. Joshie and Jayden were shooting from far and making all of their shots. Bupa would just laugh and comment on how good they were. He would say, "Boy, you sure are good basketball players" and, "you never miss!" Bupa seemed to always light up when he saw the boys.

I'm so glad we visited him that day and I'm so happy Jayden was so persistent with us. We have that memory as our last time with him and it was a happy moment. Thanks to Jayden we will always have that!

I'm still in shock that Bupa is gone! He was one of a kind and the one and only Bupa that there will ever be! We will miss him dearly.

I ask that you please keep us in your thoughts and prayers, especially for my Dad who spent time with Bupa each and every single day that he was living at the nursing home! Thank you.

Our love and aloha to Bupa who is now in a "better place" and reunited with Grandma!

Joshie's 8th Birthday Celebration

Last Saturday we took Joshua and a couple of his friends to bowl, play video games, and to eat dinner. After dinner, we brought the boys back to our house for a sleepover. This was the second year that he only wanted a small group to celebrate his special day.

Unfortunately, one of his buddies, (Bryson) got sick and couldn't attend so it ended up being just Joshua, Blake, and Grant (his great b-ball buds).

From the moment they set foot into the house, they ran up to the playroom and played basketball. They literally played up there from about 6 pm until 11pm! Occasionally, they'd come down for water or to play a few minutes of Wii, but would run back up as fast as they could.

It was a pretty simple party this year, but Joshua had a great time with his two pals. He was definitely worn out by Sunday morning! He was practically lifeless! So here's to another successful birthday party for Joshie!

Welcome...Dylan Emily

Congratulations to Kim (Lance's sister), Eric, and Marley and their brand new edition to the family. Dylan Emily was born on September 24th, weighing in at 7 lbs., 6 oz., and 19 1/2 inches long.

We can't wait to meet Dylan!

Happy 8th Birthday

Today is Joshua's 8th Birthday! We're so proud of him and he continues to amaze us with his maturity, sincerity, generosity, intelligence and talent.

We will be celebrating his birthday this weekend. Pictures will be posted later.

Happy Birthday to you Joshie...we love you!

Kindergarten Volunteering

Today was my second time volunteering in Jayden's kindergarten class. I will be volunteering every Tuesday this year. So far, it's been a lot of fun. Observing the kids, helping them at their centers and overseeing their daily activities.

Jayden is taking after his big brother and is a very well-behaved and attentive student. There are some kids that do need some extra attention and I'm glad I'm there to help where I'm needed.

I absolutely love Jayden's teachers and I am fully enjoying being able to be a part of his kindergarten experience.

Next month, I will attend his field trip to the Bishop's Pumpkin Farm and we're looking forward to that as well.

Successful Surgery

Thank you all for your prayers, concerns and well wishes. Lance's Mom had a successful surgery on Friday. After 6 long hours, the doctors removed parts of her pancreas, small intestines, and stomach. They did find cancer in there along the way but were able to remove it all, thank goodness! She is in good spirits. We saw her on Saturday and Sunday and her only major complaint was the fact that she was starving! She's still on I.V. and could only have ice chips! Her first request for a solid food is a french dip with cheese!

Hopefully, she will be home by Friday.

Thank you again for all of your prayers. The power of prayer is amazing!!

Please continue to keep her in your prayers and also, please keep Lance's Dad in your thoughts and prayers as well. Thank you!

Please pray for Lance's Mom...

Tomorrow, Lance's Mom will be having part of her pancreas removed. A few weeks ago, she was unable to keep her food down and was extremely itchy. After a number of tests, her doctor found a growth on her pancreas. She will be in the hospital for approximately 8 days and her total recovery time will be approximately 6 weeks.

Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers for an easy surgery and a healthy and quick recovery. Thank you!

Purple Belt

A few weeks ago, Joshua took his Purple Belt test. Last night, he received his purple belt! Congratulations to our Purple belt master! In just one session, he was taught his new form for brown stripe and he was able to perform it by memory by himself! A very impressive accomplishment. Each belt that he advances, becomes so much more difficult and he did extremely well! It has almost been two years since he started Taekwondo and he's not even 8 years old yet! Joshua continues to impress and amaze us in everything he does! We're so very proud of him again!

First Day of School

Last Thursday was Jayden's first day of Kindergarten. He was a tad bit nervous but excited at the same time. He is in Mrs. Pennington's class(the best kindergarten teacher there is)! There are about 6 kids from Jayden's pre-k class that are in his kindergarten class too. (pictured above with Brynn, his friend from pre-k)

Jayden had a great first day of school and said that he absolutely loves his teacher and his class!

Joshua also had a great first day of school and is excited to be in Mrs. Taxara's 3rd grade class.

My "babies" are growing up so fast!

Anyway, here's to a super academic school year for both Joshua and Jayden!

Happy 37th Birthday!

On Saturday, August 11th, we celebrated Lance's 37th birthday. First he coached Joshua's team, the Warriors to a great victory! Joshua had an awesome game that included, 8 points, 2 steals, and 3 rebounds. All of that and we were short 2 players so Joshua needed to step it up and play the whole entire game as point guard. Our great friends, Ry, Annmarie and little Toby took a drive out to Rocklin (from Dublin) to watch Joshie in action. Then, we headed home for a day of hanging out, laughing and lots of fun. We had a delicious dinner, and a yummy ice cream cake too. On Sunday, the guys got to go golfing together (something that both of them haven't done in a very very looooong time!!) So, the mommies got to hang out and then when the daddies came home we all went to lunch.

It was a fun-filled weekend! Best of all we got to spend it together along with our dear friends. Actually, it was also great because this was the very first time in forever that Lance didn't have to work at the bazaar. The bazaar always falls on his birthday weekend and we never get to celebrate his real birthday...poor guy!!! He too was relieved that for once he got to fully enjoy his special day!

Thank you Ry, Annmarie, and Toby for making the trip out to spend with us and for staying over so that the guys could golf. Can't wait to see you again soon!

Happy birthday to the best husband and daddy ever! We love you! Here's to more celebrations for one person who definitely deserves to celebrate!

"Most Outstanding Player"

Last week, Joshua took yet another week long basketball camp. This time it was the Lincoln High School bball camp. Knowing that it was not going to be nearly as exciting as the Bibby camp, Joshua was not as enthusiastic. However, he ended up having an awesome time. It was a camp for 7-15 yr.olds. The head coach of the h.s. team, ran the camp while the JV coach and a handful of highschool players helped out. Even after the very first day, Joshua was definitely feeling the love from the coaches. They were pretty amazed at his "skills". He was "droppin' dimes" like Bibby. The coaches said that "he can't miss" and that "he has range" and were excited to see him crossing over, being smart, and handling the ball well. In fact, throughout the camp, the younger coaches would take Joshua aside to teach him things and to their surprise, he would do exactly as they said and would make the shot as well! He won the knockout competitions each day. And,on the last day of camp, he beat out the last coach! Joshua's fellow campers were also very positive and would come up to him and say, "you're GOOOOD!!" Each day, the kids were allowed to pick their own teams for games, and everyone wanted Joshua! I witnessed this on a couple of days, they'd literally run to him and pull him, poor thing, thought they were going to yank his arms out of his sockets!

Two awards were given out at the end of the camp, one for "sportsmanship" and one for the "most outstanding player". The coach was about to announce the award and said, "I'm sure you all know who I chose for the "most outstanding player", the kids yelled out "JOSHUA!!!"

Again, a great experience for Joshua. A definite confidence booster as well. I talked to the coaches and they all had wonderful things to say. We as parents are always proud of our children...but when we hear things from other people, it really makes us step back and take it all in. The JV coach told me that Joshua will go really far and that he can't wait until he gets to the h.s level. The other coaches were saying how amazing he was. The head coach commended Joshua on his humble and positive attitude. He is confident, but not cocky! It was wonderful to hear all of these guys talking about Joshie the way that they did. Obviously, they know how much hard work and dedication it takes to play at a highschool level and they see Joshua's potential. Even Lance was taken aback by their comments! Basketball has always been Lance's passion and now that his sons are right there with him, he's soaking it in too!

Congrats to our little "Baller"!

Baby Sarah Update...

Thank you for all of your prayers and well wishes. Sarah is at home now. She was taken off IV and is eating, gaining weight, and getting stronger. Please continue to pray for her, my brother and his family. Thank you!

Mike Bibby's 1st Annual Basketball Camp Part 2...by, Cyndee

I personally thought that Mike Bibby's camp was EXCELLENT! Joshua has taken several basketball camps in the past and Bibby's camp was by far the best camp he's taken. Not only did he receive quality instruction but come on...it was Mike Bibby's camp! Like Lance said, he was there everyday for the whole entire camp from beginning to end. Most importantly, Bibby was GREAT with the kids! He played with the kids, had one on one time with each group, and was always open to signing autographs. I also thought that he was a positive role model and he truly felt like a very warm, sincere, genuine guy!

There was a lot of talk about how Bibby's camps in the past were not that great and how he wasn't personable, how he was "stand-offish", shy, and somewhat unapproachable. In my opinion, he was the complete opposite of what was said about him.

Each day that Jayden and I were there, Mike Bibby gave us some special attention. One day, while we were sitting on the bleachers watching Joshie's group, Bibby walked over to us and sat by us for a little while (and this was when Jayden was being really shy so I told Bibby that, he just laughed and told him not to be shy). On another day, while Bibby was taking individual pictures with each camper, Jayden and I stood by the door to watch while he took one with Joshie. At that moment, Mike looked up, smiled and motioned to me...he then pointed to Jayden and gave a thumbs up because Jayden was wearing his Jordan jersey. (Bibby idolizes MJ, and is a part of "Team Jordan"). On another day, we took a photo with Bibby and he would've carried Jayden, but Jayden didn't want him to think he was a baby. Another time, Bibby came up behind us and he tapped Jayden and ran and hid behind a post, so he was actually playing with Jayden which I thought was really cute. Then, we took another photo with Bibby. Jayden also drew a picture of Bibby and gave it to him and he asked Jayden all kinds of questions and thanked him for it. On another day, Bibby was signing a bunch of autographs and as we were passing through, (I didn't even think he'd notice us because there were so many people around him)and heading to the restroom, Bibby ran up to us and was totally tickling Jayden. Throughout the days at the camp, we'd run into Bibby here and there and he'd always acknowledge us, throwing Jayden a peace sign or saying "wassup Little man", and so on.

So, I figured that Mike Bibby was just a friendly guy, until I talked to some of the parents who said that he wasn't very friendly or social and that he didn't talk to them as much or some not at all.

I guess Bibby's entourage, "Team Dime" has somewhat of a bad reputation....but, all the guys were really cool and friendly too. They'd come up to us and give Jayden high fives and knuckles all day!

All in all, this was an unforgettable experience. I've always liked Bibby, but after this camp, and the overall experience, I'm officially a HUGE Bibby fan, it's definitely all about Bibby! Actually, midweek, Lance was getting pretty tired of hearing about Bibby this and Bibby that. I told Lance that I was going to blow up the photos we took with him and hang them up around the house! Lance just rolled his eyes and said, "yah, yah, yah". So, this is the reason why Lance wrote in his entry that we made a "new friend".

Can't wait until the next one! I don't know who's more excited about next year's camp, Joshua or me?! I think I may just have to join his fan club...hehe.

Check out Mike Bibby's website where you can see photos from each day of the camp. Mikebibby.com

Mike Bibby's 1st Annual Basketball Camp Part 1...by Lance

Joshua attended the 1st Annual Mike Bibby Fantasy Basketball Camp in Rocklin.

A word to parents: We pulled Joshua out of a city camp that was the same week (and already paid for), not with the expectation that he would get better instruction at the Bibby camp, but to give him the "experience". Bibby is his favorite Kings player, and there were other pros scheduled to attend. So, we did not expect him to get much "teaching and/or coaching", but we did want to create a memory for him.

Thank you to grandma and Bumpa for making a contribution to creating this memory for Joshua.

Now...onto the camp...first off, props to Bibby. I heard this was the first camp Bibby has done that he actually had a hand in organizing. I had also heard he typically would show up late and leave early, and would not be "approachable". Not wanting to pass judgement, I let everything just fall into place.

Props to Bibby for putting together an agenda that really worked the kids. Props to Bibby for putting together a staff that had "credentials"...coaches and players from all levels were present (from high school coaches, to WNBA players...) to coach the kids. And the kids did work...8 stations, 20 minutes at each station. The kids worked on dribbling, endurance, "core" strength training, footwork, shooting, passing, and many, many other drills including Defense (ironic at a Bibby camp, isn't it?) Each day Joshua came home exhausted...a sign of a great camp.

I spent a couple hours at the camp one day, and Cyndee and Jayden were at the camp each day for basically the entire time. I was truly impressed.

Bibby showed up at 9AM, the beginning of camp, and stayed until 230 - each day. He did not turn down a autograph request, or a picture request. He mingled with the parents, plyed with the kids. Jayden and Cyndee even made a new friend (I'll let Cyn tell you about that).

Kings strength trainer Al Bianchi was there and talked to the kids about nutrition, conditioning, and more importantly..."burnout".

About the "other" pros scheduled to show...first let me say this: If you send your child to a Bibby camp to see Amare Stodumire...save your money. You never know who will show up...but you have to admire the ones that do. Names scheduled to appear (but subject to change) were Baron Davis, Amare, Kevin Garnett, Drew Gooden, Bobby Jackson, other Kings players, and other pros. It was a good lineup.

Who showed? BJax, Francisco Garcia, Bonzi Wells, Quincy Douby, Justin Williams and Ruthie Bolton-Holyfield. Was Joshua disappointed? Nope. He enjoyed the camp, got an autographed picture with Bibby, and got his autograph on a basketball card...he didn't care.

Was I disappointed? Not really. I understand that some guys just don't want to make the time...I was glad Bibby was there all day, every day. I was also told that Bibby was overheard on the phone with Amare, giving him an earful because he didn't show. Again, props to Bibby.

Bibby's "team" gave back...each camper got a bag, a uniform (jersey and shorts), lunch each day (Burger King and Pizza), and they won various prizes (jordan headbands, etc.) Each coach was given Team Jordan shirts, as well as the newly released Jordan shoes.

Closing words: I would recommend the camp to anyone who likes not only Bibby, but basketball as well. The $399.99 price tag is a lot, but the memories it created are priceless (do you hear Mastercard calling?). And it is my belief that one responsibility we have as parents is to create memories for our children. Joshie has already asked to go next year.

Please Pray for Baby Sarah

On the morning of August 3rd, brand new baby Sarah was admitted to the hospital. Apparently, she wasn't taking any milk and had a low temperature. Once at the hospital, the staff ran a number of tests from MRI's, EEG, etc., poking, prodding etc. to this little tiny baby! They found swelling in her brain and concluded that she was having seizures of some sort.

Today is Monday, and Sarah is still in the hospital. She is doing better, actually taking a bottle and off the IV. She is more alert and the seizures have seemed to stop. The doctor gave her B6 and since then, she hasn't been having any other complications.

The latest news is that she may be able to go home soon.

The doctors are still administering other tests and keeping a close watch on her.

Please pray for Sarah, my brother, and the rest of their family.

Sarah Miya

On July 26th, my brother Kevin and his wife welcomed their brand new addition to their family. Tracy gave birth to their third daughter....Sarah Miya!! Congratulations to Kevin, Tracy, Emma, and Hannah. We can't wait to meet baby Sarah!

"M.J(ayden's)" 5th Birthday Party

A couple of weeks ago, we celebrated Jayden's big 5 at Strikes Bowling. It was a fun time for all, bowling, pizza, cake, presents, and video games.

Although it was a bowling party...Jayden's theme was basektball, of course! If we could, we would've had a Michael Jordan party. As you probably have guessed, Jayden's newest obsession is MJ himself! He had to wear his new Jordan jersey/matching shorts, Jordan socks, sweatband and shoes. It's all about Jordan now! Pretty funny, our little 5 year old didn't even want toys this year from us, he requested anything Jordan!

Thank you to everyone who attended and for all of the great gifts. Happy Birthday again to our little guy!

Happy Birthday

Happy 5th birthday to our little "M.J(ayden/ordan). We love you and are proud of you. Everyone always says that you have and infectious smile...can't help but smile when we see your happy smiling face! We'll be celebrating Jayden's birthday tomorrow at Strikes!

Handles...(tiny ones)

Check out "M-Jayden" and his "handles"and how he quickly changes direction to avoid disaster while never losing ball...And the Jump Stop...WHOA!!!

Hot Spots Competition

Here's Joshie in the Hot Spots Competition...check the form..."It's soooo prett-ay"!!

Joshua workin' on his game...

Checkout Joshua hittin' the boards, pump fake and SCORE!!!

Little "J" workin' on his "J"...

"M-Jayden" Showin' His Skillz...

Here's Little "M-Jayden"...workin' on his game...